Different

It was a while before we came to realize that our place was the very house of difference rather the security of any one particular difference. ~ Audre Lorde

Something different has the quality of not being the same as another thing, being distinct.

They are different, yet same. ~ Bhinnêka Tunggal Ika, the national motto of Indonesia, literally means “different, yet the same” referring to the Buddha and Śiva

Quotes

I am pleased to see that we have differences. May we together become greater than the sum of both of us. ~ Surak

• We leven allen verschillend en toch gelijk.
  • We're all leading lives that are different and yet the same.
  • Anne Frank, The Diary of a Young Girl (1942 - 1944), 6 July 1944.
  • Variant translation: Our lives are all different and yet the same.

• We've looked and looked, but after all where are we?
  Do we know any better where we are,
  And how it stands between the night tonight
  And a man with a smoky lantern chimney?
  How different from the way it ever stood?
  • Robert Frost, The Star-Splitter.

• I shall be telling this with a sigh
  Somewhere ages and ages hence:
  Two roads diverged in a wood, and I —
  I took the one less traveled by,
  And that has made all the difference.
  • Robert Frost, "The Road Not Taken", st. 4 (1916)

• Le courage de nos différences. Without becoming irresponsible, to accept what divides us — with humility and with pride. It is by the 'new' that mankind is saved or betrayed.
  • Dag Hammarskjöld (19–20 November 1955), in Markings (Vägmärken, 1963), trans. W. H. Auden and Leif Sjöberg (1964)

• Every difference of opinion is not a difference of principle.
  • Thomas Jefferson, inaugural address (March 4, 1801); in Andrew A. Lipscomb, ed., The Writings of Thomas Jefferson (1904), vol. 3, p. 319.

• Being women together was not enough. We were different.
  Being gay-girls together was not enough. We were different.
  Being Black together was not enough. We were different.
  Being Black women together was not enough. We were different.
  Being Black dykes together was not enough. We were different.

  Each of us had our own needs and pursuits, and many different alliances. Self-preservation warned some of us that we could not afford to settle for one easy definition, one narrow individuation of self. At the Bag, at Hunter College, uptown in Harlem, at the library, there was a piece of the real me bound in each place, and growing.

  It was a while before we came to realize that our place was the very house of difference rather the security of any one particular difference.

  • Audre Lorde, Zami: A New Spelling of My Name (1982)

• Difference does not have to be threatening.
  • Audre Lorde, Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches. Crossing Press. 1984. p. 78. ISBN 978-0-89594-142-8. 

• Difference is that raw and powerful connection from which our personal power is forged.
  • Audre Lorde, The Master’s Tools Will Never Dismantle the Master’s House. 1984. Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches. Ed. Berkeley, CA: Crossing Press. 110-114. 2007

• As women, we have been taught either to ignore our differences, or to view them as causes for separation and suspicion rather than as forces for change. Without community there is no liberation, only the most vulnerable and temporary armistice between an individual and her oppression. But community must not mean a shedding of our differences, nor the pathetic pretense that these differences do not exist.
  • Audre Lorde, Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches. Crossing Press. 1984. p. 112. ISBN 978-0-89594-142-8. 

• It is not our differences which separate women, but our reluctance to recognize those differences and to deal effectively with the distortions which have resulted from the ignoring and misnaming of those differences.
  • Audre Lorde, Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches. Crossing Press. 1984. p. 122. ISBN 978-0-89594-142-8. 

• If I could wake up in a different place, at a different time, could I wake up as a different person?
  • Chuck Palahniuk, Fight Club (1996), chapter 3.

• In my time, we knew not of earth men. I am pleased to see that we have differences. May we together become greater than the sum of both of us.
  • Surak, Star Trek: The Original Series Season 3 Episode 22 The Savage Curtain (March 7, 1969), story by Gene Roddenberry as well as teleplay by Gene Roddenberry and Arthur Heinemann

• Unity isn't established by ignoring the differences between different groups, but by persuading everyone to take all the different struggles seriously.
  • Keeanga-Yamahtta Taylor, The fight against racism doesn't stop here (July 23, 2013), Socialist Worker.

• Bhinnêka Tunggal Ika, the national motto of Indonesia, literally means “different, yet the same” referring to the Buddha and Śiva, and it is usually rendered as “unity in diversity”. The phrase is from the Kakawin Sutosoma, a fourteenth century poem in Old Javanese, by Mpu Tantular. The stanza is as follows:
  Rwāneka dhātu winuwus Buddha Wiswa
  Bhinnêki rakwa ring apan kena parwanosen, Mangka ng Jinatwa kalawan Śiwatatwa tunggal
  Bhinnêka tunggal ika tan hana dharma mangrwa.
  The Buddha and Viśva[nātha] are known as different realms
  They are different, but how to know this difference
  For the truth of Jina (Buddha) and Śiva is one
  They are different, yet same, for truth knows no duality.
  • Mpu Tantular, quoted in The Idea of India- Bhārat as a Civilisation -- Subhash Kak